In Orthodoxy, suicide has historically been viewed as a sin because it involves taking one's own life, which is seen as an act against the sanctity of life that God has given. Our view on suicide as a sin is grounded in the understanding that human life is a sacred gift from God, and taking that life prematurely through suicide is considered a violation of God's will and plan for each individual.
While suicide is generally regarded as a sin in Orthodox teaching, the Church also acknowledges the complexity of mental and emotional struggles that may lead individuals to such desperate actions. The Church responds with compassion, recognizing that those who contemplate suicide may be facing overwhelming suffering and despair.
Whilst the stance of the church has not changed, there is a growing emphasis on understanding mental health issues and providing support for individuals who are struggling. The church encourages us to extend empathy and prayers to those affected by suicide, recognising that only God can fully understand the depths of a person's heart and circumstances.
We need to remember our belief in God's mercy and forgiveness. especially when dealing with the family of those who have taken their lives. I recently met a woman at such a parish and the distress is heartbreaking. Alienating such people because of how their loved ones passed away, does not do anyone any favours and goes agains the christian ethos. While suicide is considered a grave sin, the Church places its trust in God's infinite love and compassion. The final judgment rests with God, and Orthodox Christians believe in praying for the departed, entrusting their souls to God's mercy and seeking His comfort for the grieving loved ones left behind.
Compassionate listening plays a crucial role in supporting individuals experiencing suicidal thoughts. As Orthodox Christians, we are called to emulate Christ's love and acceptance. Offering an empathetic ear can help alleviate anyone's sense of isolation and despair. It is often near impossible to tell that someone is experiencing these thoughts. You might meet someone at church and think they have it all going on, but underneath it all, they are in absolute despair. You cannot tell.
Just a few short decades ago almost everyone lamented suicide. Today, people (including Orthodox Christians) have become more ambivalent. Why is that? Because everything is being reduced to a commodity. As an Orthodox Christian, the responsibility to shed light on the gravity of suicide and offer compassion to those afflicted falls upon us. By demonstrating understanding and support, we can help individuals find hope in their darkest moments. It is crucial to remind them of God's love and mercy, encouraging them to seek guidance from the Church and professional help in their struggles.
Ultimately, the Orthodox perspective on suicide combines a recognition of suicide as a tragic act against the sanctity of life with a compassionate response that seeks to provide support, understanding, and prayer for those affected by this deeply sensitive issue.